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Thursday, July 23, 2009
Dating 101: Get Your Partner to Appreciate You
The answer on how to receive appreciation for all that you do in your relationship may surprise you.
By dating expert Noelle Nelson, Ph.D., for Hitched
Photo: iStockphoto.com/© Franck Camhi
Updated: Jun 25, 2009
You scrimp, you save, you wash dishes, mop floors, endlessly pick up dropped sweaters, towels, CDs, dirty dishes, endlessly put away said sweaters, towels, and whatever else needs to be done; regardless of how tired you are or how early/late/inconvenient it is -- and that's on top of your 40-stretching-to-50-hour work week.
Does your one-and-only appreciate it? Does he stop to say "Wow, good job! Sparkling clean dishes, great floors -- thanks!" or "Gee, Honey, spot-free glasses and a neat house. You're awesome!" Noooo. OK, so you can understand that others might take you for granted, but your live-in partner? Grrr.
And how about the effort you make outside the home? No matter what the morning was like (the cat threw up on the couch, you were out of coffee and Diet Coke), you square your shoulders, take a deep breath, and walk in to work with a smile on your face and your very best positive attitude. You do your job with 100 percent effort so you can keep your salary coming in and keep your job secure given the present economy. Again, do you hear any thanks for it? Do you get even an ounce of appreciation from your mate for your day-in-day-out work ethic? Noooo. All you get is, "Is dinner ready yet?" or "Did you check the oil in my car?" Grrr.
What does it take? How can you get your partner to appreciate you?
You need to appreciate your partner. Oh, I know that's not the answer you were looking for. But you see, appreciation is an energy and it attracts like energy. As you start appreciating your mate, he/ she will begin appreciating you, and if you are persistent and consistent, they will eventually express their appreciation to you in dozens of unexpected and delightful ways.
How does it work? Appreciating is basically valuing, paying attention to, and acknowledging the worth of someone or something, and being grateful for how that worth contributes to your life. So appreciating becomes something you do proactively, before anyone has done anything for you. You're simply recognizing their value and expressing it to them. You can't wait until someone comes along and does it for you. You could be waiting -- as you have -- a very long time.
Mouthing an empty "You're great" won't work. It takes more than that. You have to identify the specific qualities and attributes that make up who your partner is, cherish them, and feel a deep sense of gratitude for them. Here's a simple way to consciously appreciate your mate:
Take a sheet of paper and draw a vertical line down the middle. On the left side, list the inner qualities and traits you value about him or her. On the right side, write down why you are grateful for each one of these qualities and traits. Spend some time, every day, noticing and valuing your mate. A moment or two is all it takes. And in case you're thinking, "That's a weird thing to do" or "Who has the time?" remember this is something you used to do for hours when you and your true love were first courting.
Now, tell your partner about it! Openly express your appreciation, in words: "What a great job you do around the house. I'm so grateful." "Your idea about how we can cut back on household expenses is really good. Thanks, Dear." And with touch: an unexpected kiss here, a quick hug there.
The more you express your honest appreciation to your partner, the more he or she will begin to see the value in you. Oddly enough, the answer to "Appreciate me!" is really "How I appreciate you."
Read more articles from Hitched at hitchedmag.com.
By dating expert Noelle Nelson, Ph.D., for Hitched
Photo: iStockphoto.com/© Franck Camhi
Updated: Jun 25, 2009
You scrimp, you save, you wash dishes, mop floors, endlessly pick up dropped sweaters, towels, CDs, dirty dishes, endlessly put away said sweaters, towels, and whatever else needs to be done; regardless of how tired you are or how early/late/inconvenient it is -- and that's on top of your 40-stretching-to-50-hour work week.
Does your one-and-only appreciate it? Does he stop to say "Wow, good job! Sparkling clean dishes, great floors -- thanks!" or "Gee, Honey, spot-free glasses and a neat house. You're awesome!" Noooo. OK, so you can understand that others might take you for granted, but your live-in partner? Grrr.
And how about the effort you make outside the home? No matter what the morning was like (the cat threw up on the couch, you were out of coffee and Diet Coke), you square your shoulders, take a deep breath, and walk in to work with a smile on your face and your very best positive attitude. You do your job with 100 percent effort so you can keep your salary coming in and keep your job secure given the present economy. Again, do you hear any thanks for it? Do you get even an ounce of appreciation from your mate for your day-in-day-out work ethic? Noooo. All you get is, "Is dinner ready yet?" or "Did you check the oil in my car?" Grrr.
What does it take? How can you get your partner to appreciate you?
You need to appreciate your partner. Oh, I know that's not the answer you were looking for. But you see, appreciation is an energy and it attracts like energy. As you start appreciating your mate, he/ she will begin appreciating you, and if you are persistent and consistent, they will eventually express their appreciation to you in dozens of unexpected and delightful ways.
How does it work? Appreciating is basically valuing, paying attention to, and acknowledging the worth of someone or something, and being grateful for how that worth contributes to your life. So appreciating becomes something you do proactively, before anyone has done anything for you. You're simply recognizing their value and expressing it to them. You can't wait until someone comes along and does it for you. You could be waiting -- as you have -- a very long time.
Mouthing an empty "You're great" won't work. It takes more than that. You have to identify the specific qualities and attributes that make up who your partner is, cherish them, and feel a deep sense of gratitude for them. Here's a simple way to consciously appreciate your mate:
Take a sheet of paper and draw a vertical line down the middle. On the left side, list the inner qualities and traits you value about him or her. On the right side, write down why you are grateful for each one of these qualities and traits. Spend some time, every day, noticing and valuing your mate. A moment or two is all it takes. And in case you're thinking, "That's a weird thing to do" or "Who has the time?" remember this is something you used to do for hours when you and your true love were first courting.
Now, tell your partner about it! Openly express your appreciation, in words: "What a great job you do around the house. I'm so grateful." "Your idea about how we can cut back on household expenses is really good. Thanks, Dear." And with touch: an unexpected kiss here, a quick hug there.
The more you express your honest appreciation to your partner, the more he or she will begin to see the value in you. Oddly enough, the answer to "Appreciate me!" is really "How I appreciate you."
Read more articles from Hitched at hitchedmag.com.
Dating 101: Five Ways Your Ego Can Kill Your Relationship
By dating coach David Wygant
Photo: iStockphoto.com/© Tatiana Gladskikh
Updated: Jun 23, 2009
I say something over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship. It's equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you're already in it.
Nothing will kill a relationship -- even the best of relationships -- more quickly than ego. Here are five ways your ego can ruin your relationship, and how to avoid letting it happen.
1. Your ego is on guard duty. Resist the temptation to defend yourself. Think about the number of times you've fought with a significant other, and whenever things get a little heated you start to defend yourself. All you hear is yourself being attacked, and you immediately go into "defending yourself" mode. Do you know that when you defend yourself in a fight, what's really happening is your ego is defending itself?
It also means that you've stopped listening to the other person. If your partner tells you that they don't like the way you've been acting lately, why not hear them out instead of defending yourself? It will almost always create a MUCH better outcome.
2. Your ego is stuck to you. To love yourself and someone else completely, you must separate the ego. In order to truly love someone, you must separate your ego from yourself. This is also true if you want to be able to totally love yourself. Now, I know that in a perfect world, we would never be ego-driven. This is not a perfect world, of course, so let's get real. We are all ego-driven to some extent or another, so let's acknowledge it and embrace that we need to detach the ego to cultivate and maintain a truly amazing relationship with someone.
3. Your ego hates feedback. The truth is that no matter how much you prepare, plan, and hope for a good conversation with your significant other, your ego is the one thing that will consistently ruin any conversation you're about to have, if you let it.
Let's say your significant other is frustrated with you in one way or another and really needs to express something about that to you. How do you respond? If you let your ego get involved and you defend yourself, it means that you're not listening to your partner. In order to really listen to somebody, it's uncomfortable. Sometimes your significant other has things to say about you that you would rather not hear. To maintain a great relationship, however, you can't let your ego keep you from truly listening.
4. Your ego is always active. You have to be willing to drop the ego and learn to have a healthy relationship. If you want to get deep with someone and take your relationship to a higher level, you must take your ego out of the equation. Your significant other is going to do things that you don't recognize. It may be voices, patterns, communication styles, or other traits with which you aren't familiar. You need to be open and willing to learn these things about your partner, and your ego will keep you from doing this every time. Most importantly, you need to learn your partner's communication style, because many times it will be very different from your own.
Dropping the ego doesn't mean you need to change who you are. It can take a lot for you to drop your ego, to really listen to your significant other, and to realize that they need you to say something in a different way. A lot of people misunderstand these kinds of requests as being their partner's attempt to change them. It's not. They're not trying to change you; they are trying to improve the way you communicate with each other. Don't let your ego get in the way. Embrace this!
5. Your ego launches low blows. Do you get frustrated when you're having an argument with your significant other? Of course, we all do. When that happens, though, sometimes the ego will cause you to hurl hurtful comments at the other person.
You're feeling hurt, so you lash out and say something you know will make the other person hurt, too. It was not only hurtful, but inevitably something stupid. By listening to your partner rather than lashing out from your ego, you can get through an argument without these low blows, and arguments will be much more constructive -- not destructive -- to your relationship.
So the next time you see your ego getting involved in your relationship, get rid of it! If you find yourself defending yourself or not allowing yourself to really listen, then you need to take a step back. Listen carefully to what's really being said, and use it to create the most amazing relationship.
Photo: iStockphoto.com/© Tatiana Gladskikh
Updated: Jun 23, 2009
I say something over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship. It's equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you're already in it.
Nothing will kill a relationship -- even the best of relationships -- more quickly than ego. Here are five ways your ego can ruin your relationship, and how to avoid letting it happen.
1. Your ego is on guard duty. Resist the temptation to defend yourself. Think about the number of times you've fought with a significant other, and whenever things get a little heated you start to defend yourself. All you hear is yourself being attacked, and you immediately go into "defending yourself" mode. Do you know that when you defend yourself in a fight, what's really happening is your ego is defending itself?
It also means that you've stopped listening to the other person. If your partner tells you that they don't like the way you've been acting lately, why not hear them out instead of defending yourself? It will almost always create a MUCH better outcome.
2. Your ego is stuck to you. To love yourself and someone else completely, you must separate the ego. In order to truly love someone, you must separate your ego from yourself. This is also true if you want to be able to totally love yourself. Now, I know that in a perfect world, we would never be ego-driven. This is not a perfect world, of course, so let's get real. We are all ego-driven to some extent or another, so let's acknowledge it and embrace that we need to detach the ego to cultivate and maintain a truly amazing relationship with someone.
3. Your ego hates feedback. The truth is that no matter how much you prepare, plan, and hope for a good conversation with your significant other, your ego is the one thing that will consistently ruin any conversation you're about to have, if you let it.
Let's say your significant other is frustrated with you in one way or another and really needs to express something about that to you. How do you respond? If you let your ego get involved and you defend yourself, it means that you're not listening to your partner. In order to really listen to somebody, it's uncomfortable. Sometimes your significant other has things to say about you that you would rather not hear. To maintain a great relationship, however, you can't let your ego keep you from truly listening.
4. Your ego is always active. You have to be willing to drop the ego and learn to have a healthy relationship. If you want to get deep with someone and take your relationship to a higher level, you must take your ego out of the equation. Your significant other is going to do things that you don't recognize. It may be voices, patterns, communication styles, or other traits with which you aren't familiar. You need to be open and willing to learn these things about your partner, and your ego will keep you from doing this every time. Most importantly, you need to learn your partner's communication style, because many times it will be very different from your own.
Dropping the ego doesn't mean you need to change who you are. It can take a lot for you to drop your ego, to really listen to your significant other, and to realize that they need you to say something in a different way. A lot of people misunderstand these kinds of requests as being their partner's attempt to change them. It's not. They're not trying to change you; they are trying to improve the way you communicate with each other. Don't let your ego get in the way. Embrace this!
5. Your ego launches low blows. Do you get frustrated when you're having an argument with your significant other? Of course, we all do. When that happens, though, sometimes the ego will cause you to hurl hurtful comments at the other person.
You're feeling hurt, so you lash out and say something you know will make the other person hurt, too. It was not only hurtful, but inevitably something stupid. By listening to your partner rather than lashing out from your ego, you can get through an argument without these low blows, and arguments will be much more constructive -- not destructive -- to your relationship.
So the next time you see your ego getting involved in your relationship, get rid of it! If you find yourself defending yourself or not allowing yourself to really listen, then you need to take a step back. Listen carefully to what's really being said, and use it to create the most amazing relationship.
Justin Timberlake's Dating Do's and Don'ts
He has killer moves, sings with a sugar-sweet voice and looks dashing in a three-piece suit. So who wouldn't want his love advice?
By Justin Timberlake for Glamour
Photo: Getty Images
Updated: Jul 9, 2009
1. Retain Your Individuality
DO know that guys like it when you're not super trendy. "I love individuality.
Wear what you feel is the best representation of yourself.
Wear what you feel is the best representation of yourself."
More Glamour:
•Five Secrets All Guys Keep From You
•Seven Things a Guy's Bedroom Says About Him
2. Avoid Show-Offs
DON'T waste your time dating a show-off. "The bravado? That guy needs to save it for the golf course."
3. Be Natural
DO know that men appreciate you au naturel. "What you spray on should accentuate the way you smell. Pheromones are way sexier than any scent."
4. Challenge Him
DON'T be afraid to push him. "Relationships are funny. You have to constantly fall in love and challenge each other."
5. Shape Up With Your Mate
DO exercise together. "It's the coolest thing you can do."
6. Resist the Urge to Hit on Celebrity Couples
AND PLEASE DON'T... bum-rush celebs. "This guy, I couldn't figure out if he was hitting on me or my girlfriend. He was like, 'You're the funniest, you wear the coolest clothes.' Then he blows Jess a kiss and goes, 'I'll see you in my dreams.' All we could do was laugh."
More from Glamour:
•10 Things He's Thinking When You Fight
•25 First-Date Do's and Don'ts
•11 Things Guys Don't Understand About Women
•Flirting Moves That Work (and Ones That Never, Ever Will)
Most Popular Dating Articles:
•Dating 101: Dealing With the Race Factor
•Dating 101: Secrets to Keep and Secrets to Spill
•Dating 101: Four Things Never to Utter Around Him
•Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last
•Dating 101: Four Signs He's Over You
•What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?
By Justin Timberlake for Glamour
Photo: Getty Images
Updated: Jul 9, 2009
1. Retain Your Individuality
DO know that guys like it when you're not super trendy. "I love individuality.
Wear what you feel is the best representation of yourself.
Wear what you feel is the best representation of yourself."
More Glamour:
•Five Secrets All Guys Keep From You
•Seven Things a Guy's Bedroom Says About Him
2. Avoid Show-Offs
DON'T waste your time dating a show-off. "The bravado? That guy needs to save it for the golf course."
3. Be Natural
DO know that men appreciate you au naturel. "What you spray on should accentuate the way you smell. Pheromones are way sexier than any scent."
4. Challenge Him
DON'T be afraid to push him. "Relationships are funny. You have to constantly fall in love and challenge each other."
5. Shape Up With Your Mate
DO exercise together. "It's the coolest thing you can do."
6. Resist the Urge to Hit on Celebrity Couples
AND PLEASE DON'T... bum-rush celebs. "This guy, I couldn't figure out if he was hitting on me or my girlfriend. He was like, 'You're the funniest, you wear the coolest clothes.' Then he blows Jess a kiss and goes, 'I'll see you in my dreams.' All we could do was laugh."
More from Glamour:
•10 Things He's Thinking When You Fight
•25 First-Date Do's and Don'ts
•11 Things Guys Don't Understand About Women
•Flirting Moves That Work (and Ones That Never, Ever Will)
Most Popular Dating Articles:
•Dating 101: Dealing With the Race Factor
•Dating 101: Secrets to Keep and Secrets to Spill
•Dating 101: Four Things Never to Utter Around Him
•Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last
•Dating 101: Four Signs He's Over You
•What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?
Dating Tips: Visual Deal-Breakers for Daters
4 elements of your appearance to work on to stay dateable
By dating blogger Rich Santos for Marie Claire
Photo: iStockphoto.com/asiseeit
Updated: Jul 17, 2009
A few weeks back I had a great time working on an upcoming "Man in the Street" feature for Marie Claire. We asked women what makes a guy dating material, and the most common answer was: someone who has it together, and has goals and ambitions.
"Having it together" goes beyond the mental aspect. I've realized that women can take one look at me and size me up as someone who doesn't have it together, and may have no ambition. My disheveled appearance could stand some adjustments.
More Dating Articles from Marie Claire:
•10 First Date Mistakes
•What The Guys I Date Don't Know
Here are some elements that I should work on to look more "together":
#1 Dating Element: Posture
I walk around as if I'm auditioning for the lead role in a Nosferatu remake. My shoulders are rolled forward, and I'm hunched over. I can't tell whether I'm tired, too relaxed, or what. But there's one thing I do know, women like tall guys. I'm cheating myself with my bad posture. If I stand up straight, I'm 5'11" (well, 5'10 and .99999999 inches); nothing to write home about, but it is over the average for the American male (5'9"). I should take advantage of anything above average about me. Standing up straight will also make me look more confident.
#2 Dating Element: Holes
You've read about the moth holes in my clothes, but there are other places where holes pop up. Assuming that women don't notice my shoes is naive, considering their love of all things shoe-related. I get everything I can out of a pair of sneakers. Plus, I'm too lazy to go out and buy new ones. My current sneakers are literally wearing away to nothingness. I could act as a visual aid for one of those old guys telling stories about the Great Depression: "In my day we used cardboard boxes for shoes." My friend Margaret, the other day, stuck her finger into the bottom of my shoe and struck foot! She declared that my porous shoes were responsible for my bad luck with the ladies. If only it were that simple...
#3 Dating Element: Hair
This "hair" refers to cat hair. You know you're in trouble when someone takes a look at you and asks, "Do you have a cat?" I'm always running late, so I don't have time to apply the lint roller before I leave my apartment. Cat hair has a mind of its own and silently floats around and attaches itself to important spots on clothing.
#4 Dating Element: Fingernails
I chew my fingernails to the hilt. In addition to being a dirty habit, it makes my hands look terrible. My fingernails are so low that people sometimes cringe when they look at them and ask me how bad it hurts. We all know I'm an anxious person, but wearing that anxiety on the outside in the form of jagged, bleeding fingernails is not going to attract many women. I've been trying to kick the habit for awhile, and when I do maybe I'll look like I have my life together more... or at least I'll look like I'm not eternally nervous.
It never occurred to me that women might see me and think I don't care how I look, and then make the connection to me not caring how my apartment looks, and not caring about my life goals and aspirations. I've let my apathetic attitude permeate my appearance, and that's not good.
Things are going to change. The other day, Margaret forced me to buy a wallet. So, I'm no longer walking around with random cards in my pockets and misplacing certain cards. The wallet is a symbol for me pulling it together. As Margaret says, "No girl likes it when a guy buys them a dinner with a balled-up wad of bills."
By dating blogger Rich Santos for Marie Claire
Photo: iStockphoto.com/asiseeit
Updated: Jul 17, 2009
A few weeks back I had a great time working on an upcoming "Man in the Street" feature for Marie Claire. We asked women what makes a guy dating material, and the most common answer was: someone who has it together, and has goals and ambitions.
"Having it together" goes beyond the mental aspect. I've realized that women can take one look at me and size me up as someone who doesn't have it together, and may have no ambition. My disheveled appearance could stand some adjustments.
More Dating Articles from Marie Claire:
•10 First Date Mistakes
•What The Guys I Date Don't Know
Here are some elements that I should work on to look more "together":
#1 Dating Element: Posture
I walk around as if I'm auditioning for the lead role in a Nosferatu remake. My shoulders are rolled forward, and I'm hunched over. I can't tell whether I'm tired, too relaxed, or what. But there's one thing I do know, women like tall guys. I'm cheating myself with my bad posture. If I stand up straight, I'm 5'11" (well, 5'10 and .99999999 inches); nothing to write home about, but it is over the average for the American male (5'9"). I should take advantage of anything above average about me. Standing up straight will also make me look more confident.
#2 Dating Element: Holes
You've read about the moth holes in my clothes, but there are other places where holes pop up. Assuming that women don't notice my shoes is naive, considering their love of all things shoe-related. I get everything I can out of a pair of sneakers. Plus, I'm too lazy to go out and buy new ones. My current sneakers are literally wearing away to nothingness. I could act as a visual aid for one of those old guys telling stories about the Great Depression: "In my day we used cardboard boxes for shoes." My friend Margaret, the other day, stuck her finger into the bottom of my shoe and struck foot! She declared that my porous shoes were responsible for my bad luck with the ladies. If only it were that simple...
#3 Dating Element: Hair
This "hair" refers to cat hair. You know you're in trouble when someone takes a look at you and asks, "Do you have a cat?" I'm always running late, so I don't have time to apply the lint roller before I leave my apartment. Cat hair has a mind of its own and silently floats around and attaches itself to important spots on clothing.
#4 Dating Element: Fingernails
I chew my fingernails to the hilt. In addition to being a dirty habit, it makes my hands look terrible. My fingernails are so low that people sometimes cringe when they look at them and ask me how bad it hurts. We all know I'm an anxious person, but wearing that anxiety on the outside in the form of jagged, bleeding fingernails is not going to attract many women. I've been trying to kick the habit for awhile, and when I do maybe I'll look like I have my life together more... or at least I'll look like I'm not eternally nervous.
It never occurred to me that women might see me and think I don't care how I look, and then make the connection to me not caring how my apartment looks, and not caring about my life goals and aspirations. I've let my apathetic attitude permeate my appearance, and that's not good.
Things are going to change. The other day, Margaret forced me to buy a wallet. So, I'm no longer walking around with random cards in my pockets and misplacing certain cards. The wallet is a symbol for me pulling it together. As Margaret says, "No girl likes it when a guy buys them a dinner with a balled-up wad of bills."
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Obama's health care experience to mirror 1994?
In 1994, universal health care was a key policy plan for then-President Bill Clinton. It eventually failed.
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Wednesday, July 8, 2009
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Alright folks, i think its time to have a twitter
discussion/how-to since many people want to use
twitter for promotion but many of them do it wrong.
I will show you how to get massive amounts of
twitter followers, then utilize those followers to
generate web traffic.
Getting twitter followers:
Getting twitter followers is actually WAY easier
than people think. First, goto a twitter user
directory like:
http://wefollow.com
Pick someone out of a category that best suits your
interest (you will want to add people with similar
interests). Next, go into that persons "followers"
list and add everyone that his following him/her
until you hit your limit. Many people will follow
you back or have "autofollow" on their twitter app.
After about an hour of waiting for followers, goto:
http://huitter.com/mutuality/
and unfollow all of those who arent following you
back. This website is trusted and i have been using
them for months. Huitter will filter out all of the
people who arent following you back.
Repeat this process as much as you would like. It
earned me 10k followers.
Driving traffic:
The first common mistake people make when
advertising on twitter is advertising TOO much on
twitter. This will do nothing but get people to
unfollow or ignore you. Like a blog, you must post
SOME interesting real content to keep peoples
attention. For example, when was the last time you
seen a blog and every post was an
advertisement....Not often right? I usually
advertise in 10% of my tweets. So for every 9
tweets, i will advertise my site in one. I found
that people will actually check out your profile
and click through to your website without you even
advertising at all. It's all about grabbing the
viewers attention with interesting and unique
tweets.
I hope i could help and maybe point those who wish
to advertise on twitter in a better direction.
If you have any questions, please feel free to PM
or ask in this thread.
Add me on twitter :P
http://twitter.com/k0p
~Dennis
__________________
Smoker, Joker, Midnight coder.
Webmaster of http://cestu.com
discussion/how-to since many people want to use
twitter for promotion but many of them do it wrong.
I will show you how to get massive amounts of
twitter followers, then utilize those followers to
generate web traffic.
Getting twitter followers:
Getting twitter followers is actually WAY easier
than people think. First, goto a twitter user
directory like:
http://wefollow.com
Pick someone out of a category that best suits your
interest (you will want to add people with similar
interests). Next, go into that persons "followers"
list and add everyone that his following him/her
until you hit your limit. Many people will follow
you back or have "autofollow" on their twitter app.
After about an hour of waiting for followers, goto:
http://huitter.com/mutuality/
and unfollow all of those who arent following you
back. This website is trusted and i have been using
them for months. Huitter will filter out all of the
people who arent following you back.
Repeat this process as much as you would like. It
earned me 10k followers.
Driving traffic:
The first common mistake people make when
advertising on twitter is advertising TOO much on
twitter. This will do nothing but get people to
unfollow or ignore you. Like a blog, you must post
SOME interesting real content to keep peoples
attention. For example, when was the last time you
seen a blog and every post was an
advertisement....Not often right? I usually
advertise in 10% of my tweets. So for every 9
tweets, i will advertise my site in one. I found
that people will actually check out your profile
and click through to your website without you even
advertising at all. It's all about grabbing the
viewers attention with interesting and unique
tweets.
I hope i could help and maybe point those who wish
to advertise on twitter in a better direction.
If you have any questions, please feel free to PM
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Monday, July 6, 2009
Dating 101: The Five Biggest First-Date Turnoffs
Everyone reads too much into things at the beginning of a relationship. Even the dude who pretends he couldn't be more casual. It's natural -- we're trying to mind-read our dates, gauge intentions, figure out if our new flame would rather be doing her nails than listening to our college stories during a nice night out on the town. So you have to be careful with us guys -- even though we pretend not to be so sensitive -- and realize what signal you're sending.
Here are five that say: I really really like you... for anyone else but me.
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1. The Coffee Invite
"Let's totally have coffee at 2:15 on Wednesday!" Coffee? On a weekday? At such a precise time? That's when you meet your friend's little sister who wants to ask you for career advice.
2. The Group Invite
"Me and a bunch of my friends are going to be at XX bar, why don't you stop by?" When we hear that you're bringing your friends along, we assume you don't want to be alone with us.
3. The Inappropriate Attire
"I just came from the gym." It's no problem if you don't dress like you're on your way to accept the academy award for best actress, but if you're wearing sweatpants, we're assuming you don't want us to think about you in any sensual way.
4. The Excuse Caused by Your Insecurity
"I'm soooooo tired." This is the absolute worst. I've had women say that to me when they've actually been interested and later admit that they were just worried that they seemed boring and were making an excuse. But what we hear is: I'm laying the groundwork to go home as soon as possible.
5. The Outpouring About Your Ex
"I'm just getting out of a really intense relationship." We don't care if this is true, and we know that even people just emerging from coupledom can get involved with new people. But we don't want to spend our first moments alone together hearing about how intense your old relationship was. Not the mental picture that makes us giddy.
More on Dating Turnoffs and Mistakes:
•5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Single Men Make
•10 Turnoffs That Make Good Guys Wave Goodbye
•Dating 101: Common Turnoffs Single Women Must Know
More Glamour:
•10 Things He's Thinking When You Fight
•25 First-Date Do's and Don'ts
•11 Things Guys Don't Understand About Women
•Flirting Moves That Work (and Ones That Never, Ever Will)
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•Dating 101: Four Things Never to Utter Around Him
•Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last
•Dating 101: Four Signs He's Over You
•What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?
Here are five that say: I really really like you... for anyone else but me.
More on Dating from Glamour:
•Five Secrets All Guys Keep From You
•Seven Things a Guy's Bedroom Says About Him
1. The Coffee Invite
"Let's totally have coffee at 2:15 on Wednesday!" Coffee? On a weekday? At such a precise time? That's when you meet your friend's little sister who wants to ask you for career advice.
2. The Group Invite
"Me and a bunch of my friends are going to be at XX bar, why don't you stop by?" When we hear that you're bringing your friends along, we assume you don't want to be alone with us.
3. The Inappropriate Attire
"I just came from the gym." It's no problem if you don't dress like you're on your way to accept the academy award for best actress, but if you're wearing sweatpants, we're assuming you don't want us to think about you in any sensual way.
4. The Excuse Caused by Your Insecurity
"I'm soooooo tired." This is the absolute worst. I've had women say that to me when they've actually been interested and later admit that they were just worried that they seemed boring and were making an excuse. But what we hear is: I'm laying the groundwork to go home as soon as possible.
5. The Outpouring About Your Ex
"I'm just getting out of a really intense relationship." We don't care if this is true, and we know that even people just emerging from coupledom can get involved with new people. But we don't want to spend our first moments alone together hearing about how intense your old relationship was. Not the mental picture that makes us giddy.
More on Dating Turnoffs and Mistakes:
•5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Single Men Make
•10 Turnoffs That Make Good Guys Wave Goodbye
•Dating 101: Common Turnoffs Single Women Must Know
More Glamour:
•10 Things He's Thinking When You Fight
•25 First-Date Do's and Don'ts
•11 Things Guys Don't Understand About Women
•Flirting Moves That Work (and Ones That Never, Ever Will)
Most Popular Dating Articles:
•Dating 101: Will Your Guy Cheat on You?
•Dating 101: Secrets to Keep and Secrets to Spill
•Dating 101: Four Things Never to Utter Around Him
•Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last
•Dating 101: Four Signs He's Over You
•What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?
Sunday, July 5, 2009
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Thursday, July 2, 2009
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
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Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Two Videos of Founder/ CEO of ConnectingRomance.com Free Online Dating Network!!
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Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Saturday, June 20, 2009
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Friday, June 19, 2009
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